I just use a web browser (usually ICS Browser+) and use the full facebook website.
The facebook app is not that great. Also, any 3rd party apps (like FriendMe and FriendCaster) you may not see all of your feeds if friends have 3rd party API's blocked. My wife has them blocked so using great apps like FriendMe an FriendCaster I miss out on her activity. Trying to get your friends to enable these settings is not always easy either.